Mr. President,
Greetings from Florida.
I wish to take a few moments and respond to your recent comments on same-sex marriage. This week you said, “I think same-sex couples should be able to get married.” You are the President of the United States, and can freely speak your mind pretty much whenever you want. That’s your right and privilege. Fortunately for me, however, I too am an American citizen, and I have the right to express my opinion on the matter. Sir, with all due respect, I disagree 100% with you. Totally. Without hesitation.
Since the beginning of our American culture, marriage has been about one man and one woman making a commitment to one another for life. Men and women complement each other physically, mentally, and emotionally. Men and women are wired uniquely, and need each other. That is why God designed marriage the way He did.
I am a follower of Jesus Christ. Part of that means I accept the Bible as the Word of God. You have said that you are a Christian. Then I am sure you have read these words of Jesus from Matthew 19:4-6: “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For the cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh’? Consequently they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” Sir, I am sure you noticed the wording in that passage. “Man” and “wife.” That is the natural way. That is God’s way.
Children benefit from the traditional form of marriage. They need a mother and a father. Not two mothers, and not two fathers. There are unique qualities that women bring to parent-child relationship, and the same can be said for men. A child who is raised in a household that has two mothers or two fathers is missing out on meaningful connections and important experiences that other children have in a traditional homelife with a father and a mother.
I could go on and on about the dangerous ripple effect that would result from same-sex marriage becoming the norm in this great country. It grieves me to think of what young, impressionable children will be taught in our public schools. A lifestyle that many Americans do not agree with will be upheld as normal. And it bothers me to think of how religious freedom will be stripped away. It will not surprise me when we pastors face threats of fine or imprisonment one day when we get in our pulpits and preach against the homosexual lifestyle. You and I both know that day is coming.
Mr. President, you also said this week, “…when we think about our faith, the thing at root that we think about is, not only Christ sacrificing Himself on our behalf, but it’s also the Golden Rule, treat others the way you would want to be treated.” Sir, I agree with you about our faith being grounded in the idea of “Christ sacrificing Himself on our behalf.” And, yes, the Golden Rule is a wonderful truth to live by. But the Golden Rule has nothing whatsoever to do with same-sex marriage. You are making a flawed biblical stretch when you sit in front a camera and try to connect the two.
What I am trying to say, Mr. President, is this. I disagree with you. With respect. But also with passion. And I will continue to disagree with you. Why? Because my God and His Word say the opposite of what you are saying about marriage.
I will preach that marriage is for a man and a woman.
I will only do marriage ceremonies for men and women.
And I will not change.
How will I treat homosexual people? The same way I have for years. With love and prayer. I feel no hatred or fear towards homosexuals. But I do disagree with their lifestyle, and I will not accept it.
Mr. President, I will close with this: There are many, many Americans who think and feel the same way I do about this. And we will not go away. We will respect you, pray for you, and wish you well. But we also will stand strongly againt same-sex marriage, and uphold passionately the traditional marriage of one man and one woman.
Just wanted you to know where this citizen stands.
David Richardson
Sebring, Florida